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江帅帅 江帅帅 2022-03-19
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In your early days as a programmer, you will have a consistent feeling in your mind that, “The grass is always greener on another side of the fence”.
刚当程序员那会儿,估计你心里也是这么想的,“围栏外的草,总是更绿一些”,总不自觉想攀比一下。
You will notice that your friend is getting paid more than you for the same job. One of your friend's social media is gaining tons of followers.
你会发现,同样的工作,但朋友总是能赚得比你多,某个死党居然还是粉丝超多的大 V。
One of your friends is making living out of their stock investment. The life of your other friend is cooler as he travels abroad every month.
还有朋友靠炒股就把生活过得美滋滋的,另外一个更酷,每个月都全世界去浪。
A friend’s startup is on the verge of creating tons of wealth for them.
还有去创业的,公司就越做越大,估值也一路狂飙。
You will see them all and think why the heck is their grass greener than yours.
你有时就会想啊,他们怎么就这么牛 X 了呢。
Until you reach a specific point in your career, you will keep comparing and that’s what 97% of newbie programmers do, they compare their wealth with their friends and start having a sense of self-doubt.
于是,焦虑就来了,这也是 97% 的新人总喜欢去做无谓的攀比,比谁赚得多谁赚得少,而真正的核心是成长,是能力提升,却被忽略了,因此陷入了严重自我怀疑的漩涡而不自知。
But as a professional programmer, you must stop comparing and start working on your progress.
但作为一名专业且逻辑严谨的程序员,你需要停下这些弱智的攀比,撸起袖子加油干起来,提升自己的核心技术能力和认知能力。
Due to project-related work, I got a chance to interact with one of the experienced programmers whom I have idolized for the longest time.
在一次机缘巧合下,我拜访了一位崇拜已久的大咖。
I simply asked him after discussing the project, “Is there any advice that you would give me for my programming journey?”
讨论完项目工作后,我向他讨教对于技术生涯中,有像葵花宝典之类的秘籍么?
He was humble enough to give me a few different pieces of advice about the different sectors of my life.
老头儿挺谦虚地给了几个小锦囊。

1. Stay Consistent

始终如一
Hardworking and Consistent programmers always win no matter who their competition is. Stay consistent and stay focused.
勤奋、坚持总是制胜法宝,不外如是。相信持之以恒,水滴石穿的无穷力量。
No matter what skill you are learning or which programming language you are mastering, stay consistent.
不管你学什么,你都要盯住一个目标,全身心投入实践并实现它。
Not only in your professional life but also in your personal life consistency plays an important role in your life. Consistency is the key to unlocking your true potential.
知道嘛,持之以恒是一把能解锁你走向人生巅峰的金钥匙,只有完全地心无旁骛地专注,才能实现天人合一,也就是所谓的心流,在你做事和学习时,有了心流能让你更容易干成你想去干成的事情。
Even if you are starting a side hustle, or want to get the most out of your new relationship just stay consistent. For achieving your fitness goal, consistency will make you the winner.
甚至你想搞好副业,处理好新关系,拥有一副好身材等,都需要有持之以恒的心态。如果这件事儿,本身就非常有意义的话,那就值得你每天都去做,并努力地想尽一切办法去做好它,这就很幸福呀。

2. Never Quit Your Job

不轻易辞职
You have seen one of your friends making tons of money from his side hustle and he has quit his job just because his side hustle is a great passive income stream for him.
你看到朋友搞副业赚了不少,于是他辞职了,副业带来的收入比现在多太多了。
What are your takes on this? Quit your job and start a side hustle, Quit your Job and start a successful start-up. The answer is NO, never quit your job.
你是怎么想的?你也离职搞副业,或者离职去创业?老头儿告诉你千万别冲动,不要轻易离职。
Even if you are willing to quit your job just have a few checks on your important work checklist —
如果说,你想离职,你先看看这几条重要的清单:
  • You have a new job in your hand 你已经找到了一份新工作;
  • Your Side Hustle is making more money than your salary 你的副业赚得比你现在到手的工资还要多;
  • Your Startup has reached a noticeable market capitalization 你想创业的核心业务已经得到市场认可,已经有人愿意进行风投了;
  • Your Social Media Account has more than 50k+ followers 你在某平台也是有 50000 粉以上的大 V 了。
If you can’t check any of the points from the checklist then just stick to your current job until you achieve any of the checkpoints even if you are having a constant urge to quit your job.
如果你还不满足以上任何一点,继续维持你现在的工作吧,压住自己的离职冲动,悄悄努力,达到上面说的任何一条先。
Work in your free time to build your passive income stream, weekends are best for that. Don’t just quit your job to start a passive income stream.
在业余时间,赶紧努力去争取更多的被动收入,干啥都行,但先不轻易离职。

3. Stay Friendly, Stay Humble

做个温暖友好又谦虚的人
Whenever your teammates ask you to explain something related to the project or something about new tech that you're using then you should respond only with “I would love to explain this”.
每当有团队小伙伴请教你项目相关的东西,或者是某些你在用的新技术,你都尝试着来一句,“好呀,没问题,我给你说说呗”。
Staying friendly in your workplace is the most important thing for a programmer and no matter in which position you are you must be a good listener and listen to your teammate's opinions.
平时工作中,甭管自己处于什么岗位,能始终保持友好的状态,是一件很重要的事儿。如果你还能是一位有耐心的倾听者就更好了,多听听团队小伙伴们的意见和建议。
Actively supporting your teammate's achievements and congratulating them for their accomplishments is a very good sign of a professional programmer.
积极支持和祝贺小伙伴们做出的成绩,这也是咱一个专业从业者的成熟的标志。
Even if you are planning to lead a team, staying friends will be the key aspect on which you should focus.
即使你接下来会带领一支团队,如何跟团队和睦相处也是你将需要多花心思的地方,这也是非常考验你领导力的时候了。

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参考地址:https://javascript.plainenglish.io/i-met-a-rich-programmer-he-gave-me-3-life-changing-pieces-of-advice-a3754d73a50c



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